This was by far the scariest thing I have ever experienced in my life, and I have deployed three times. I find her, and of course I am visibly and audibly distraught, but she was perfectly fine. The call vibrated her smartwatch, but texts didn’t I guess. I managed to track her down because I called instead of texting. So, you can appreciate the gradual trip to crazy town I took. I feel like I should clarify, the warnings signs pointed to a possibility of my wife being dead. ![]() I drove to every hotel in town looking for her car. I vaguely remembered her kinda hinting at where they met for coffee so I started there and worked outward. Luckily my boss is a rockstar and understands family emergencies and doesn’t ask a million questions. Not once did she think about me once the action started (she was there for me in the first place, to please me. My married wife of two kids spent 3 hours at an unknown location, with a relatively known person, doing unknown things and never thought to check her phone. (A phone and brick are the same thing to her). We use life360 in case shit goes sour and I need to intervene, but she had somehow turned it off and couldn’t figure out how to fix it. However on this day, I couldn’t reach her. There is usually a HINT of jealousy that’s overcome by my need to reclaim her. This isn’t the first time she’s been with a guy like that. I have never had the ability to just screw for hours or have multiple orgasms. I hit it and move on to other parts of my day. I’m self-conscious about being a one and done kinda guy. Before the meet, I was honest with the wife and said “it goes where it goes, just record it if you do.” It went where it went. He’s a nice guy, a communicator, and has a lot of experience living this lifestyle in a safe manner. He’s married, 47, his wife allows him to play when he’s away. Bob works for the railroad so he’s in town around once a week for a day, then leaves back home. Bob is a transient guy from a different part of the state. It makes me feel that there is a way to make this work for both of us, but getting there is where I need your help.Ĭut to the most recent meeting. The sex, in general, after we started again was quite possibly the best sex either of us has ever had together. I have read a few of your articles about Sperm Competition and Voyeurism, along with a few other articles, and you have helped me really get down to the “why” I like hotwifing. Now, any guy, any meet, any talk about it at all makes me anxious. Fet had a degree of separation and anonymity that I seemed to enjoy, because it never really became more than what it was. I also find myself automatically defaulting to anger if I know she has given out her personal number. I have noticed that her being on her phone has started to make me feel isolated and has caused significant anxiety in the recent week, which didn’t exist previously. It’s like it’s not “ok” once I see her contacting folks, but of course I have consented. I never ask her to, and I refuse to snoop, but when she does share with me I get a gut feeling. She has zero problem sharing messages with me and such. ![]() She is fully transparent that she is married, and that hubby knows what’s going on. My wife has been using dating apps to find partners. She would bring home videos of the event for me to use later and watch before I reclaimed her. Again, I found sexual gratification in watching her with other men. Still growing, but that never stops so I digress. ![]() One year later, we are doing a TON better. We stopped hotwifing while we handled our issues. I truly love this woman with every fabric of my soul, and she loves me just as much. We are no longer in couples counseling, and we are doing great. We have since sought couples counseling and continue to communicate and love one another. ![]() I have emotionally reached out of the marriage on more than one occasion, and my wife has failed to validate me and allow me to be vulnerable around her several times (always correlated together). We have had many relationship issues over the years, all really boiling down to communication problems. I (36) am a military veteran and the sole provider of the home and she (41) is a stay at home mother of 2 kids (12 & 13).īefore I get into the reason I am writing, a little context is in order. We have been married for 14 years as of December. My wife and I have engaged in the hotwife (specifically stag/vixen) lifestyle on and off since 2019. Estimated reading time: 18 minutes A special thank you to Lar deSouza who provided this illustration!
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